The Neglected Gift In Sales

 

Gift in Sales: Which do you prefer, receiving a thoughtful gift or giving a gift that someone will cherish for years to come?

Maybe in the last few months, you’ve done a favor for someone that to you seemed insignificant. Yet, to the person on the receiving end, it felt like an enormous gift that made a huge difference in their life. Did it feel good to be able to do something for someone that costs you little time and effort and yet had a big impact?

Those of us that are givers by nature and love the rush of good feelings we receive when we can give someone something that matters, tend to struggle with accepting gifts/help/praise from others. You know who you are. You’ve been told, asked, and possibly begged by the people who love you to accept help. Maybe someone has even said these words to you, “You don’t have to do everything on your own, you can ask for help.”

 

 

Gift In Sales Continued…

Years ago someone pointed out to me that by always declining help when it was offered, I was robbing people of the experience of giving. Wow! It was an eye-opening moment! On the one hand, I believed that being fiercely independent meant not accepting help under any circumstances. Then, on the other hand, realizing I was robbing people who cared for me of giving to me was selfish.

The first time, in my mid-thirties, that I accepted help from a loved one (because I realized that declining was being selfish), I had to force myself not to throw up. It felt foreign and in many ways wrong. And then, when I interacted with my loved one over the next few days, I realized he was practically floating. He was in such high spirits. He did receive a gift. The gift was the satisfaction of being able to help someone he loved.

Here’s how this relates to sales; too often we don’t ask the people in our lives that know, like, and trust us to refer us. And yet, we know that like attracts like. So, these people are the absolute perfect people to connect us with our next ideal client.

Many clients tell me they feel guilty or uncomfortable asking people to refer them. When I explain the idea of allowing or accepting help from others as a true gift for the giver, they start to look at the ask in a whole new light. It no longer feels selfish. There are so many people who believe in you, your product/service and they would be honored to connect you with someone else that might benefit from what you do.

 

 

Your Savvy Sales Tip this week: Gift In Sales

Be willing to allow people to make introductions and connections for you. You’re offering them the opportunity to feel good about themselves, and for many people, those feelings are a gift.

 

Of course, how you ask for the introduction is important and will likely determine if the other person acts on your request. Here’s some possible language you might use, “As a trusted resource, is it ok to ask if you’d be willing to introduce me to Sarah at XYZ Co? Would you agree, she seems like someone who might benefit from my product/service? Once you make the introduction, I’d be honored to take it from there and respectfully ask about setting up a meeting to get to know her better and see if there’s a possibility of us working together.”

There’s a chance the person you ask for the introduction may say no or even ignore your request. If that happens, move on, find someone else in your trusted community who is willing to connect you with the right people. No need to take it personally, remember, sometimes a “no” is just a “not yet.”

 

Wishing you continued success this week.

 

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